Do you want to find out why some people are so motivational? Would you like to understand why, when you tell people to stop doing something, they usually continue to do it? Are you curious as to why some people go into a funk and can’t seem to get out of it, while others seem to create opportunities and success everywhere they go? People’s inner movies have a huge impact on all of these situations.
The bad news: Sometimes inner movies get stuck in regret mode—playing the “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda” game. That is, thinking, “I would’ve done that, if only something different had happened!” or, “I could have done this if only someone did some- thing right!” or, “I really should have done better!” This game tends to waste time and emotional energy.
The good news is that our inner movies can help us learn, pre- pare, and practice to be successful. The great news is that we can purposely influence our inner movies to be happier, more success- ful, and even better in bed. I’m only half joking with that last one, but using the inner movie well really can help in any area of life. In addition, it can help our relationships with other people and even help the way we feel about ourselves.
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